elindra SG Hmmm when I was young my brother and I will fight and I'll give him bruises and beat him up then my mum will whack me with the cane for bullying my brother (another reason why I dun wan to have kids. I dun think I can live with having to face with a young version of myself ) Suddenly my mum's warning just keeps ringing in my ear," You better be good if not next time your kid will be as naughty as you"
fudgester SG Well, my former Sec 4 form teacher (I still keep in touch with her - she's my mentor) got married at 26. And she only had her first baby at the age of 32. Once during a class reunion she brought her cute little toddler along. I still have the picture of me carrying the cute little toddler girl in my arms.
elindra SG I got married at 26 too *turns off Wanda's Twilight Zone music * Seriously this karma thing is coming back to haunt me because I was a very naughty and destructive kid
honeymouse SG Ha ha.... join the club. I am turning 30 in July... aaarrrgggg..... But I don't think we are going to have kids for another 2 years. Probably because we want to do something else first (to get an investment property).... Anyway, we will need to sort things out first to see if it's indeed feasible for us to do that. I think there is something you and Mr Pinky bear need to sit down and talk about - how to make time for the kids and the way you want to bring up the kids. Family time is really really very important.
honeymouse SG One year younger than me and yet you already worried about your time to have kids is up. My birthday is on July 1. When is yours? So far I haven't met many people with the same birthday as me yet.
sillyme SG I think most children go through the 'brat stage'. It's inevitable, almost like it's coded. That's why we need parents
elindra SG Must plan ahead I don't intend to have kids this year at all But at least need to plan what to expect etc I even let my boss know so they can train someone up for my job coz no one knows what I do at work Mine's on July 27
